I trust last week’s exercise produced enlightening
observations of what is impacting on your life from the outer world?
You alone hold the power to choose what you allow, and
what you will not compromise for your wellbeing. As you work on restoring
balance to your health.
Focus on the inner world. Clear and strip out the
emotional clutter and physical commitments which accumulated over time -
evolving as habits. Are they relevant and serving your wellbeing, or are they
like a garage holding old baggage not longer required? Are you hoarding habits
and emotions and not releasing them?
I tried many times to establish boundaries on what I
tried to change in my life, to improve and make it better. It fell on deaf ears
and I had to find the courage to walk away from a friendship I valued. I was
learning to hold a greater respect for myself. Learning how precious my
physical body was - if I was to stay in this physical world
I assessed the patterns of behaviour from people in my
life, and how they influenced my behaviour and thoughts.
Questions to ask
yourself.
1. After being around this situation or person how has
it impacted me?
2. Make a positive and negative list and take time to
assess your life.
3. De-clutter it.
I love the quote - I don't know who or when it was
originally penned.
I finally came to realise a few people I
would have crossed an Ocean for
But they wouldn’t
jump a puddle for me.
There is no easy way to circumnavigate the emotional
pain. Look truth in the eyes. I can only suggest EFT (Emotional Freedom
Technique) to help ease you over these sorrows in life.
Give yourself permission to cry, it is the physical
sign of releasing pain, and it is so much better than keeping the pain within
your overburdened physical body.
When you feel a peace and calmness creeping into your
inner world, give yourself a pat on the back. Once, you see how changing your
behaviour is having a positive impact on your inner world. This new found
courage will help you face the next cupboard in your mind and clear it out.
One step at a time, be kind to yourself and
importantly learn patience. You didn’t become sick
overnight. In certain cases it has taken years of bad habits, lifestyle, bad
emotional memories and holding a belief system which is no longer working for
you.
Change can happen, but it has to be on
your terms!
My sense of humour,
stood beside me frequently, as I gradually learnt to become more confident in
establishing boundaries for my well-being. One such saying was….
I have an attitude and
YOU need to adjust!
Foods
I noticed a few
foods manufacturers are placing labels on their products SOY FREE (At long
last). I tried a couple of products with these labels, but
still remain cautious of these processed foods. As I stated before. DO what is
right for you. The article I wrote called Little Gems in February is very relevant with
regard to foods.
Now winter is
finished - the kale is being eaten by the bugs. Again ... having my banana
smoothie with fresh dill, organic turmeric and organic cinnamon. I use the Simply Organic brand because I achieved
better health results.
Creative update
I had the intention
of turning to writing fiction after writing my book about cancer.
Unfortunately, I received feedback which produced a blockage impacting on any
effort to write fiction again. Showing again, how an outside influence can
stunt my growth, and for now I will accept. There again I am focused on the
harmony of my inner world and that is my priority.
Exercise
My exercise regimen is still the same as mentioned in
my book. Using a resistance band to
work on my strengthening my back. Now able to do the shopping and lift the bags
by myself again for the past 18 months.
No one ever could have imagined I would do this again if you had seen me 10 years ago.
No one ever could have imagined I would do this again if you had seen me 10 years ago.
As always… I convey my
thoughts and send peace. But most of all…..
Stay Strong!
Karen
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